Why do so many teenage girls do this?

A lot of girls that go to my school tend to go after 21+ aged guys and that is absolutely ridiculous. they always end the same. the girl falls in ';love'; with the guy because he's older and more ';mature'; when yet they guy is a desperate loser. Then they have sex because it's what the guy wants and the girl will give in to anything when it comes to him.





Then the relationship ends and the girl gets really upset, even though she should have seen it coming.





WHY MUST THEY DO THIS?Why do so many teenage girls do this?
When those older guys were your age they saw the same thing. A girl they really liked, but never had the confidence to ask out was swooped up by a older guy. Plus older guys feel more confident around younger girls, and they get to take advantage of them. While guys like you and me just sit back and watch it happen.





About the sex, once the guys has her, she is easily pressured into anything. Just image, your 13 and get to hang out with 18 years old, there all smoking and they offer some to you, you will prolly take it in order to look cool. Same rule implies.





The older guys are more ';mature'; and they don't really ';love'; them...


It's age old sleasssy thing older guys do. Just open yourself to those girls and have the confidence those older guys have (MUCH harder said then done).





Just don't be intimidated by immature young girls who are desperate for the image of a older guy.Why do so many teenage girls do this?
Because most teenage girs want serious relationships and feel secured by guys who have had more experience besides in the sheets but in taking care of them. Girls want to feel more mature and one way is by being in a relationship with an older man. Girls hope things last forever and are such dreamers, it's sad how easily a girl gives her heart away to a guy who doesnt deserve it. I guess it's complicated in a way.
i was one of those girls. the guys seem cool and you think that you look cool dating them. i ended up going back to the guy who was only 6 months older than me because i realized he truly cared. just be yourself and be caring. be the guy who is there when they arent dating them and when that guy is no longer there. then they will realize you are in it for a good reason not just sex.
most just love the attention


i could totally understand that because when i was in highschool that all i wanted was older guys because they knew how to talk to a women and make them feel great as to the highschool boys who are still learing things about relationships so basically the older men know how to play younger girls
ha been there done that


im still a virgin of course..


when i was a freshman (15 yrs old) i met this 21 yr old through my friend and he asked me out a week after i had known him.. he was my first bf anddd it lasted for a alllmost 2 weeks.. i ended after realizing what an IDIOT this guy is.. God knows how many gfs he had and wondering why he would ask me out a week after meeting him i ended right there. ladies dont date illegally.. do urselves a favor.. ;)
i do it, honestly guy hoo r 17 want to loose they virginity and girls too, so instead of goin 4 a guy inexperienced they go for guyz experienced learn what they r doin and than they enjoy it so much they keep goin 4 21 yr olds. its normal dont worry wen i was 14 i had a crsuh on a 20 yr old, so every girl goes thru it



Because many people don't know what they want. It's not just girls, and it's not just teenagers. Some people never figure out what it is they truly want, and they spend their whole lives following the same patterns that don't lead them to happiness. :/
they probably think that older guys are more mature, but really they are not.



mabeyy its low self-esteem.
it doesn't stop when you get older either dude
tell them to stop