Is it loserish to want to keep my virginity through my teenage years?

I don't think i would be ready to have sex at 17 i sometimes get uncomfortable of the feeling of losing my virginity im a guy though so does that make me kind of a loser i don't think i would ever mention this to my friends about me wanting to stay a virgin or anyone personallyIs it loserish to want to keep my virginity through my teenage years?
Have sex when you are ready. Period.Is it loserish to want to keep my virginity through my teenage years?
I can totally understand you feeling like it's loserish in relation to your guy friends BUT think of who you would rather impress, your guy friends now or the woman you are eventually with when you are older and ready? Exactly. That woman is going to feel so special that you waited for her it will make the waiting worth it. You don't necessarily have to tell your guy friends that you are waiting. Just say a guy never kisses and tells. Truthfully, even if they tease you there is a part of them that is impressed that you aren't just following the crowd because it's ';the thing to do.';
If you don't want to have sex, then don't do it and don't feel ashamed about it. You will regret giving in to peer pressure a lot more than if you don't. Some people your age just aren't ready for sex or they have no desire to do it with someone they barely know. Imagine how much worse it will be to have to face that person every day at school and have him brag about what he did to your friends and then they tell everybody else. I never gave in to the pressure to have sex when I was your age. As a result, there was a lot of speculation as to whether I was a lesbian. I didn't like it at the time but looking back on it now, I see it as being much more preferable to having had a sexual encounter that was meaningless to me. I also can look back with the satisfaction than none of these boys ever got anything from me. They may have had a crush on me but it never went beyond that.
No! it's not loserish at all, I think it's sweet that you want to stay a virgin and even better that you are a guy. There aren't enough guys who are virgins in the world and I don't mean this in a predator-ish way lol. I think it says a lot about who you are and where your moral standing is. Shows that you have control over your life and that you choose to do things your way and stick to your beliefs. That you are not some loser who does things because everyone else is doing it.





But if along the way you feel like giving it up to someone you fall head-over-heels for, go for it. Let your self and your ideals evolve as you grow up. A 20 year old doesn't want the same things a 17 year old does and therefore you should allow yourself to re-evaluate your decision.





Hope this helps!
I don't think it is loserish at all i think its cute that you wouldn't want to lose your virginity and it makes you different than all guys a lot of girls would want a guy like you. Most guys only want the sex so if you get a girlfriend or have one then they will probly respect you more knowing thats not what you want.
theres really nothing u can do that will make u a loser. just Own it. whatever u choose to do. plus its no ones business what u are or arent. if they ask for ur input u can always say ';wouldnt u like to know'; and stick ur tongue out. joke around with it. if ur with guys talking about gettin some u dont need to have any imput lol. they are perfectly entertained with it or without, Trust me =P i think its okay to have sex when ur teen but its also totally okay to stay a virgin. just rock ur choice, whatever u pick. and congrats to u and ur awsome self-control =D
NO it does not. and do not think that. It makes you strong that you can wait. A lot of people take sex to lightly and do it at EARLY age. To them sex is just fun. Others like you and me think sex is romantic and want to save it for a special situation at the right age. Be proud of ur decision, it is easier to not do it than doing it. But reality is that you might lose some bfs cuz of it. My first relationship i lost him cuz i did not want to do it. Guys are horny, what can i say? But its ut gift to whoever u want to give it to , whenever you want to give it them.
If it isn't right for you, then you are very smart to listen to that little voice. Have pride in both your standards and your courage to live by them.


My husband was very worried to tell me that he was a virgin when we first met - It only made me think more highly of him.





Iisten to your gut - It is NEVER wrong.
for everyone that thinks this person is a girl... he said he was a GUY





anyway... that may seem loserish to your friends but for many girls it makes you the opposite of loser. it makes them know that you were smart enough to wait and not lose it with the first girl who walks by
hell no! im waiting tell im married and im not even religious...i just have standards. i respect my self and i am sorta old school and conservative....anyways this about you not me so i have to say is u have that right to want to be a virgin. it does not mean you are a loser just cause your a guy . its your private life
you don't need to mention it to your friends. Most of their stories are lies anyhoo. You are totally not a loser. It is just what society has pounded into our heads. You are a better person than most for not going along with what everone else is doing.
Don't sweat it dude.





I'm fixing to be 17. and I haven't lost mine either.





My friends talk **** to me alot. But ultimately, it's about what I want. Not what they want.





And I'm kewl with it. Just do what you want bro. Remember you aren't alone brotha!
It would take alot of will power for a guy to stay a virgin but its great to hear. never rush these things and who gives a crap what your friends think. they are the losers for not being able to control themselves. i congradulate you on this.
DEFINITELY not a loser (from a girl's perspective, and you can ask any of us). You should wait until you are in a loving, committed relationship and ready. The girl (or guy) will understand too.
no dude it is your choice your life do what you want and you will be very very happy so if you wanna keep it keep it if you don't then don't choose whatever you want
No, it does not make you a loser. Many girls would admire this quality in you. Just wait until you meet the right girl, take your time, and don't compromise your morals for someone else. Good for you!
Do what's right for you and by you. It's your decision to make, and it doesn't make you a loser.
No, its not'; looserish'; to think for yourself. Your friends are mostly blowing smoke about made up experiences, anyhow. Seventeen yr old boys did that when we still lived in caves.
I wish I would have lost mine earlier b/c doing it by myself kind of ruined the real experience the first time.
hell no





havin sex is just a stepping block into doing it more....it should b done with someone u truly love
It's not loserish, it just means you have standards. I commend you for waiting and not being a sluttttt.
NOPE!!! =]


haha im gonna wait but ima gurl =]


nahhh forget about what ppl think do what you wanna do =]
100% no. It's something to be proud of.
you shouldn't feel like a loser for having self respect
no
i didnt have sex till i was legal age. and i didnt do that till i had contraceptives carried around condoms and coudl legally buy them. face it sex is like a box of chocalates.. u never know what u are gonna get. im a girl and i don't think your a loser at all i think it responsible and mature. and maturity is a mature womans magnet ( ppl who are sexually responsible keep themselves healthy) i think its a healthy thing to wait or to be careful. besides ruining whatever childhood u have left with pregnency if u have hiv and know it and give it to soemone else u can be jailed... and 20% of american teens get pregnent and more than 25% have a std and those are the ones that get tested. always be prepared for soemthing i belive and less partners u have less people u have to worry about( everyone they been with and u been with u basiccally are being intimate with... by proxy so be careful) guys your age might say u are a loser but they the same who ll most liekly knock someone up or get a std . think about it the nerds who get called losers in school are the millionaries of tomorrow and the popular kids often are the burger flippers... so why care what they think? plus again maturity is a babe magnent . but seriously.. the guys who are saying theyve had alot of girls... most liekly are lying or overcompensating for something.( in my studies i found more males who didnt say anything about sexlives had the healthiest ones. and most guys at a young age bluff.) plus its not quantity of sex its quality of it. youll learn that in the future.
NOT IF YOU WANT TO MARRY A GUY WORTH HAVING, BECAUSE HE IS LOOKING FOR A GIRL WORTH HAVING. ARE YOU WORTH HAVING HOE.