Friday, August 20, 2010

What would you do if you saw your teenage daughter watching porn?

Say that she is 14 and has good grades in school, but she secretly watches porn. What would you tell her?What would you do if you saw your teenage daughter watching porn?
I would confront her about it, say something like ';Kim(whatever your daughters name is), the other day i saw you watching some inappropriate stuff and i think we need to talk about it. I understand you are curious at this age, but i reallllllyyyy dont think this is the way to go about discovering things. It is degrading to people and is not appropriate for you to see at your age. you are a bright lovely young woman and you have plenty of time to learn about this stuff later in your life. Enjoy being young.'; i hope that helps a bit, if it doesnt im sorry, best of luck :)What would you do if you saw your teenage daughter watching porn?
.Being sexually curious is normal at this age. Too much sexual curiosity at this age could indicate that there has already been sexual activity or sexual abuse.





I'd have a heart-to-heart. I talk to her about porn, about how sex within a loving relationship is different than what she's seeing on the porn websites and about how pornography exploits women and ask her how she feels about all of that.
Have a long talk with her as to why she should not be watching it. I would also get her some reading material on the affects porn has not only on men but also on women. She needs to understand that the affects of porn and what it can lead to can be very harmful to all of her future relationships. She also needs to understand that much of what is seen in the online videos and tapes is not really what sex is all about. There are several good books out there that can help you explain and also help her. You can find them on amazon.com. Good luck
This is completely normal. I wouldn't do anything or say anything to her. Every kid is curious about porn and what they do in them. She is 14 and entering high school, let her do her thing. At least she isn't acting on the porn. Don't be so concerned.
Maybe it's time for ';the talk';. Other than that, nothing. As long as it doesn't become some sort of obsession, it is harmless. At that age, it's usually more about curiosity than anything else.
It is important to keep her occupied with other things.


';Idle hands are the devils playpen';





Or tell her if she is going to watch porn it better be on a safe porn website.
*shrug* It's normal, so I probably wouldn't ';tell'; her anything and allow her some privacy and fun. I might let her know that I'm available if she has any questions about it.
talk to her aboout it keep an eye on her the best you can.
Burn the porn tapes! LOL!


Umm, nea, just leave her dear, she's going through a phase.
I'd grab her and tell her that she knows it is wrong or else she won't be doing it in secret and than wear her little butt out! (spank her)
I'd explain that it is fake and so out ot the normal that it can cause her to be miissed up concerning sex
well just have a talk about sex she probably curious
Pretend I didnt see her.
id watch it with her lol

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